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New Blog! May 21, 2009

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We’ve moved!  You can now find our blog over at

sensationalweddingvendors.ca/blog

As much as we loved this one, we decided to move quickly, before it got complicated!

Much love to our fabulous friend and awesome Graphic Designer, Chrissy! 

 

 

Guest Etiquette for Weddings May 19, 2009

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Etiquette.  Fancy word for common sense.  Or so you’d think … As wedding professionals, we see a lot of things.

Our friends at Always a Blogsmaid just posted a fabulous and insightful “What Not To Do At A Wedding” list to give guests a better idea of, well, what not to do.  Here’s an excerpt –

“Last week, I answered a reader question about what to do when people reply with a guest when they weren’t invited with one. Since then, I had the unusual experience of having guests invite friends to join them at a wedding….. I can’t begin to express how wrong this is. I was standing there with my clipboard when I saw people clearly not dressed for a wedding attempt to enter the reception. I went over to stop these wedding crashers when a guest came over to tell me that it was “OK” and that they were friends of hers that she invited to stop by since they were going to go out together later anyway. If I thought it was a problem, maybe she could ask the bride.

Sigh. When we started this business, I always vowed not to become the #itch with a clipboard…. no one likes that planner. But, there I was, horrified and holding a clipboard. I tried to not use the words “barn”, “home training”, or “common sense” and instead simply let her know that it wasn’t OK as nicely as possible. However, I realized that there seems to be a general lack of awareness these days about what is wedding guest etiquette. If you know better, you’ll do better. So, I thought I’d lay out some basic rules of thumb that any wedding guest can follow! (btw, these are all ACTUAL things that we’ve seen people do.)

#1. The Envelope with the invitation tells you who is invited. It also tells you who is NOT invited. If it has only your name, then only you are invited. If it says & guest, then you may bring a guest. If it doesn’t have & Family or your childrens names on it, then your children are NOT invited. Peggy Post frowns on writing adult reception on invites, but unfortunately, guests seem to not understand that if your children aren’t included on the inner or outer envelope, they aren’t invited.
#2. Do NOT Wear White. Yeah, it’s just not OK. You must own SOMETHING else. I know you like that dress. You feel pretty in it. White is your favorite color. You know who else looks good in white? THE BRIDE. And why do it to yourself? The bride is getting her hair and make up done AND she’s accessorizing it all with the glow of love. You will never look as nice as she does AND you’ll just be “can you believe that woman in the white dress??”
#3. Don’t Dance Before the First Dance. You can sway during the cocktail hour, but when you get into the reception room, TRY, please TRY and contain your magic moves until AFTER the couple has been announced and done their first dance. (Note to couples: No matter how untraditional your wedding might be, if you aren’t going to do a first dance, do SOMETHING to open up the dancefloor, since most people will be waiting for your cue.
#3a Don’t Dance During Parent Dances. Or any other “special dance” for that matter. I KNOW, I KNOW, you are an amazing dancer! But it’s awkward with you busting a move when the only other people on the dance floor are the bride and her dad.
#4. Don’t Skip the Ceremony. It’s just kind of rude. It makes it look like you just came for the free booze. It’s the most important part of the day.
#5. Don’t come late and Try and Come in During the Processional. You got an invitation. You know the start time. If for some reason you are late, don’t add insult to injury by cutting in front of the bridal party to try and squeeze in “unnoticed”. Hang back, wait for the bride to enter and THEN come inside. ”

For the other 5 points on the list, check it out at AlwaysABlogsmaid.com

What type of guest do  you want to be?

Much love,

Jennifer & Eve

xoxoxo

 

Inspiration: Jackie O May 14, 2009

Brides have so many places to find inspiration for their weddings – what better place to start than the inspired style icon herself, Jackie O?

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It is rumoured that Jackie didn’t like her dress – the Kennedy’s had given it to her the day of, and she felt it didn’t suit her style.  It may not have been her first choice, but that dress definitely goes down in history as a fabulous choice indeed!

Want to bring a little bit of Jackie’s style to your big day?  Here’s some ideas – starting with a fan-fricking-tabulous dress by Vera Wang!

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For those of us that can’t afford the Vera dream (insert pouty face here!), J Crew (yes, I said J Crew!) has some awesome alternatives!

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There’s also a great company, www.bluevelvetvintage.com, that makes some awe inspiring vintage-style wedding dresses!  Check out my favourite –

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Of course, you’ll definitely need shoes!  These styles, again from J Crew, have a vintage look with a side of Jackie O-feel.  Mmmmmm – perfect for either an entire vintage themed wedding, or as your favourite add on to whatever theme you’ve chosen for your big day!

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(Note to self – re learn to walk in heels so I can wear draw-dropping shoes at my wedding!)

Whose your style Icon?

Much love,

Jennifer & Eve

xoxoxo

 

We Are Excited To Announce …… April 24, 2009

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OUR TOTALLY REVAMPED WEBSITE!!!

http://www.sensationalweddingvendors.ca

Check it out and let us know what you think! 

We are extremely excited to finally launch our website dedicated to help brides and vendors find their perfect wedding matches! We will be doing vendor interviews, product reviews and checking out what’s hot in the wedding world all season long! 

 

Stay tuned for interviews with 3 sensational wedding vendors and a product review… coming soon!

Ciao

Eve and Jennifer 

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